Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-4-25 11:46 PM:
係時候表現你成熟既男子氣慨喇 :icon075::icon075::icon075: :icon101:
...盡我能力去保護佢..認真..
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-4-25 11:47 PM:
曾幾何時既自己都係咁24孝
而家?:icon071:
站係我而家呢個situation...可以點..?
其實我自問算自私..不過今次..
Originally posted by 捷禾@Ajax at 2005-4-25 23:48:
...盡我能力去保護佢..認真..
退後一步,或者用旁觀者角度睇
你眼中既為佢好
同人地家長眼中既為佢好
其實都可能只係講緊同一樣野
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-4-25 11:50 PM:
退後一步,或者用旁觀者角度睇
你眼中既為佢好
同人地家長眼中既為佢好
其實都可能只係講緊同一樣野
:icon075::icon075:
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-4-25 11:50 PM:
退後一步,或者用旁觀者角度睇
你眼中既為佢好
同人地家長眼中既為佢好
其實都可能只係講緊同一樣野
言下之意...?
Originally posted by 捷禾@Ajax at 2005-4-25 23:50:
站係我而家呢個situation...可以點..?
其實我自問算自私..不過今次..
其實我都有frd遇到相似情況
佢地一齊左三年,一路都係用d 藉口呃呃tum tum咁出街
雖然有奶過野,但係而家都繼續一齊緊
只要大家信心夠堅定
無話唔可以將一段上左水既地下情再浸返落水既
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-4-25 11:52 PM:
其實我都有frd遇到相似情況
佢地一齊左三年,一路都係用d 藉口呃呃tum tum咁出街
雖然有奶過野,但係而家都繼續一齊緊
只要大家信心夠堅定
無話唔可以將一段上左水既地下情再浸返落水既
其實我而家o既concern..懶偉大d 講..係佢呢個夾心人會幾辛苦..
Originally posted by 捷禾@Ajax at 2005-4-25 23:51:
言下之意...?
你擔心佢被家長管束過嚴或者限制自由
佢家長擔心佢被你教壞或者乜乜七七
其實都係因為,大家根本唔互相認識、了解、理解
Originally posted by 捷禾@Ajax at 2005-4-25 23:53:
其實我而家o既concern..懶偉大d 講..係佢呢個夾心人會幾辛苦..
呢個僵局唔會維持太耐
之後雙方都會明白,無可能各持己見
最可能既outcome係
1) 你地扮無瓜葛,實質上繼續來往
2) 你同人地家長講掂數,循規蹈舉 (但危機在於你一唔小心畀佢捉到痛腳就玩完)
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-4-25 11:53 PM:
你擔心佢被家長管束過嚴或者限制自由
佢家長擔心佢被你教壞或者乜乜七七
其實都係因為,大家根本唔互相認識、了解、理解
呢個我當然明..不過過嚴呢個一定係事實..你可見過 F.6 學生生日正日放學 6點鐘可以有 8個missed calls..
...我都好想教壤佢..
當然我都明大家o既著眼點唔同...所以...夾心人o既意願先係重要..
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-4-25 11:55 PM:
呢個僵局唔會維持太耐
之後雙方都會明白,無可能各持己見
最可能既outcome係
1) 你地扮無瓜葛,實質上繼續來往
2) 你同人地家長講掂數,循規蹈舉 (但危機在於你一唔小心畀佢捉到痛腳就玩完)
1) 係possible 好多..但係以佢屋企..應該會好似prisoner 咁對佢..
2).....我都想..
Originally posted by 捷禾@Ajax at 2005-4-25 23:55:
呢個我當然明..不過過嚴呢個一定係事實..你可見過 F.6 學生生日正日放學 6點鐘可以有 8個missed calls..
...我都好想教壤佢..
當然我都明大家o既著眼點唔同...所以...夾心人o既意願先係重要..
所以,如果你想keep人
更加要令佢心甘情願地承受同你一齊之後既代價
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-4-25 11:57 PM:
所以,如果你想keep人
更加要令佢心甘情願地承受同你一齊之後既代價
其實一開始已經大概知道...
Originally posted by 捷禾@Ajax at 2005-4-25 23:56:
1) 係possible 好多..但係以佢屋企..應該會好似prisoner 咁對佢..
2).....我都想..
1) 果關係難過架喇……考驗你地肯唔肯撐囉
個人認為,可以靜觀其變,敵不動自己不動
太早讓步扮分手或者太執著去展開談判都對大家無益
Originally posted by 捷禾@Ajax at 2005-4-25 23:59:
其實一開始已經大概知道...
釘唔拮到肉又點知痛呢
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-4-26 12:00 AM:
1) 果關係難過架喇……考驗你地肯唔肯撐囉
個人認為,可以靜觀其變,敵不動自己不動
太早讓步扮分手或者太執著去展開談判都對大家無益
1) 其實而家都係半開放式prison..
Thx for suggestions..
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-4-26 12:00 AM:
釘唔拮到肉又點知痛呢
....
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-4-26 00:00:
1) 果關係難過架喇……考驗你地肯唔肯撐囉
個人認為,可以靜觀其變,敵不動自己不動
太早讓步扮分手或者太執著去展開談判都對大家無益
最後只能等消識..等變數:icon099:
Originally posted by ar U at 2005-4-26 12:02 AM:
最後只能等消識..等變數:icon099:
想訓..但一定訓唔著..
有好多功課做..但係邊有心機做..
Originally posted by 捷禾@Ajax at 2005-4-26 00:02:
1) 其實而家都係半開放式prison..
Thx for suggestions..
傻啦,你估我真係畀到意見你咩
呢度從來都只係畀大家自說自話然之後好似有D 啟發就回歸現實既地方