Originally posted by 文迪達 at 2005-5-9 05:02:
梗係唔係講緊拍緊拖啦~~
你好有信心自己掂硬架拿……？
點樣承受失敗果種反彈？
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-5-9 05:04 AM:
你好有信心自己掂硬架拿……？
點樣承受失敗果種反彈？
其實o果次我冇諗過真係得o架喎~
我同佢由01年o既10月認識，我同佢一齊識電腦的!!
我可以講係一見鐘情，第二日番學一見倒佢就即刻有好感，成日留意住佢~~
好快就識o左，仲幾熟o下，過o左個幾月之後知道佢同o左同班一個男仔拍拖!!
o果時真係幾Hurt o下:icon099:到佢地拍o左幾個月拖之後我諗住冇咩o野，懶係睇通o左咁~~
但到o左個女仔生日去o左個男仔屋企搞生日，o果次仲o係大家面前Kiss:eek:我o果時即刻咩心情都冇晒~:icon068:
佢地大約拍o左大半年就散o左，我地真係好frd好frd就過多一年多，而我地日陪佢，又約出o黎玩!!
到o左03年8月，佢番工放夜，我去接佢放工，跟住去o左食o野，o果日我忍唔住，因為已經等o左差唔多兩年冇理由就咁就算，勇敢o的做一次，之後都可以一齊!!:icon065:
其實我講咁多，都係想講由此至終我都係對佢好好，就算俾人話我想"Gil"牆腳同俾人排斥~甚至於佢同人地拍拖o果時!!
失敗??冇人係未試過失敗o架喎!!o果時我真係勁hurt做人好似冇咩意義咁~
俾o的時間自己就得o架喇~而o係失敗之中我學倒機會係要自己掙取o既!!
Originally posted by ~~冬之子~~ at 2005-5-8 09:35:
依個世界邊仲有咁愇大既人:icon032:
我咪係囉小理....
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-5-9 02:00 AM:
呢一刻既回報
當然係希望用愛換取愛
o甘我既答案係可以的.
因為你只當「對方的愛」為回報. 即係將所謂「見到佢幸福,我都會開心」之類既野排除在回報外. 但事實上,呢d「非回報」始終對一個有感情的人有所影響. 所以我覺得「不求回報」係呢個情況下係可持續既:icon082:
如果你係想同佢data你做D野
咁就一定唔得
if not
我覺得why not?
Originally posted by 孫中謝拉特.奧雲 at 2005-5-9 11:10:
我咪係囉小理....
你好偉大:icon099:
Originally posted by 文迪達 at 2005-5-9 10:43:
其實o果次我冇諗過真係得o架喎~
我同佢由01年o既10月認識，我同佢一齊識電腦的!!
我可以講係一見鐘情，第二日番學一見倒佢就即刻有好感，成日留意住佢~~
好快就識o左，仲幾熟o下，過o左個幾月之後知道佢同o左 ...
誠意可嘉:icon112:
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 2005-5-9 04:43:
我感覺到自己真係好想好想
可以令好唔開心既佢可以好似以前咁開心
呢個「為佢設想」既動機，反而令我更加覺得，無回報會令人好灰心
佢唔相信兩個人一齊可以克服到果種被遺棄既感覺
我希望佢會相信，但係用咩去支撐自己既意志，已經係一個問題
pity is akin to love:icon009:
Originally posted by 沉睡的藍 at 9-5-2005 02:04:
然後又係憑感覺去判斷幾時收手？
係ga，鍾唔鍾意都係一種感覺之嘛，只要你而家仲係lum佢，就算佢ban你，你都唔會突然變成無feel lu咁ga.
做每樣野都係有辣有唔辣ga la，只要你仲係lum佢，你就算吃盡苦頭都自自然然繼續對佢好，佢對你少少feedback，你都勁開心．
無野可以令到你持之以恆撐落去，不求回報，唯有當你個心仲係想做，當有一日你想放棄就自然會放棄，所以米即係憑感覺囉．想點米點囉．
曾經鍾意過一個女仔，我對佢都唔知叫唔叫做好。不過真係為左佢投放左好多資源，就算我知道佢唔鍾意我都好，我都無變。因為做唔到情人，都至少有個深交。就算而家佢同我都各自拍拖都好，我仍然係無變。
呢o的叫唔叫做不求回報？
Originally posted by 保斯尼治 at 9-5-2005 08:47 PM:
曾經鍾意過一個女仔，我對佢都唔知叫唔叫做好。不過真係為左佢投放左好多資源，就算我知道佢唔鍾意我都好，我都無變。因為做唔到情人，都至少有個深交。就算而家佢同我都各自拍拖都好，我仍然係無變。
呢o的叫 ...
執著
不過好想知你對你現任既feel係點
會唔會將兩個人既feel比較
不求回報.....
回報依 d 野 ..... 而家冇可能遲 d 有呢 .....
回報都係時間問題 .... 好似一種賭搏敢 ....
負出得多感情 ≠ 回報高 ..
負出得少感情 ≠ 回報低 / 冇回報 ..
你永遠唔知幾時中 ...
睇你仲有幾多感情/信心下注 ... 繼續玩依個遊戲 ..
我覺得'想有回報'係一定既,
正如公主所講,
係人性.
不過,你對佢既包容,
如過去到佢唔俾回報你
而你都想維持關係既話
咁就算'做到'啦.
應該話,係唔需要,唔係唔想.
Originally posted by linkinpark at 2005-5-9 21:24:
不求回報.....
回報依 d 野 ..... 而家冇可能遲 d 有呢 .....
回報都係時間問題 .... 好似一種賭搏敢 ....
負出得多感情 ≠ 回報高 ..
負出得少感情 ≠ 回報低 / 冇回報 ..
你永遠唔知幾時中 ...
睇你仲有幾 ...
我當然希望有咁既一日 :icon065:
我想撐得到落去
正如"Melinda and Melinda" 入面既女主角話
I want to want to live.
Originally posted by 文迪達 at 2005-5-9 10:43:
其實o果次我冇諗過真係得o架喎~
我同佢由01年o既10月認識，我同佢一齊識電腦的!!
我可以講係一見鐘情，第二日番學一見倒佢就即刻有好感，成日留意住佢~~
好快就識o左，仲幾熟o下，過o左個幾月之後知道佢同o左 ...
呢d 野往往都係可一不可再既……除左恭喜，還是恭喜
Originally posted by 銀公主 at 2005-5-9 11:37:
o甘我既答案係可以的.
因為你只當「對方的愛」為回報. 即係將所謂「見到佢幸福,我都會開心」之類既野排除在回報外. 但事實上,呢d「非回報」始終對一個有感情的人有所影響. 所以我覺得「不求回報」係呢個情況 ...
慘得過佢又唔幸福
但係又唔要我理佢咩 :icon058:
Originally posted by yuren at 2005-5-9 11:57:
pity is akin to love:icon009:
:icon075::icon075::icon075:
but love has something more than pity...
Originally posted by 北倫敦之王 at 2005-5-9 11:51:
如果你係想同佢data你做D野
咁就一定唔得
if not
我覺得why not?
What do you mean by 'data'...?
Originally posted by 保斯尼治 at 2005-5-9 20:47:
曾經鍾意過一個女仔，我對佢都唔知叫唔叫做好。不過真係為左佢投放左好多資源，就算我知道佢唔鍾意我都好，我都無變。因為做唔到情人，都至少有個深交。就算而家佢同我都各自拍拖都好，我仍然係無變。
呢o的叫 ...
咁係你同佢搵到最佳位置je……佢企起果個你覺得舒服既位置
都已經係一種回報
Originally posted by King100m at 2005-5-9 14:46:
只要你仲係lum佢，你就算吃盡苦頭都自自然然繼續對佢好，佢對你少少feedback，你都勁開心．
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