好,正式加入煩惱一份子......

歐石南

Originally posted by Zero at 2005-7-16 20:03:


睇黎機會超大

我覺得寧願壯烈一點
好過留下滿腹疑團

簡拿華路

Originally posted by Stanley Traore at 2005-7-16 08:32 PM:
但係其實間中搵下佢...傾下計......

我初時都係咁諗

但過耐左 就會想有個名份

簡拿華路

呢度有member suggest 唔好太快/太早俾女方知道自己的愛意

但太在意隱藏愛意 又可能被對方定位為 "朋友"

HackerWong

Originally posted by 簡拿華路 at 16-7-05 09:21 PM:
呢度有member suggest 唔好太快/太早俾女方知道自己的愛意

但太在意隱藏愛意 又可能被對方定位為 "朋友"

應該係將愛意"自然"地流露

銀公主

Originally posted by HackerWong at 2005-7-16 09:30 PM:


應該係將愛意"自然"地流露

盡信書不如無書
所以我先唔俾意見

歐石南

Originally posted by HackerWong at 2005-7-16 21:30:


應該係將愛意"自然"地流露

知易行難

Zero

Originally posted by HackerWong at 2005-7-16 09:30 PM:


應該係將愛意"自然"地流露

呢下真係同玩Mine Sweeper差唔遠....

Zero

Originally posted by Stanley Traore at 2005-7-16 08:32 PM:
zero兄...我situation同你差唔多...

其實我覺得睇下你覺得成功既機會有幾大...
如果唔大既話我覺得都係做住好朋友好........
起碼同佢傾多左...知道佢大約點諗...做咩事都方便...

反而 ...

咁我都會等機會大既時候先自爆既.....

我頂多7-8次遮

HackerWong

Originally posted by 銀公主 at 16-7-05 09:33 PM:


盡信書不如無書
所以我先唔俾意見

actually..d感情事根本就唔應該有第3者出聲ge...

Stanley Traore

Originally posted by 簡拿華路 at 2005-7-16 09:21 PM:
呢度有member suggest 唔好太快/太早俾女方知道自己的愛意

但太在意隱藏愛意 又可能被對方定位為 "朋友"

順其自然...如果明知機會唔大仲去表達愛意...
就算好彩大家仲有朋友做...大家都會好避忌...
因為對方會可能覺得你所做既什何野都係有目的...咁樣可能更加覺得你煩...


與其係咁...維持''朋友''既關係來得好好多...

Stanley Traore

Originally posted by HackerWong at 2005-7-16 08:46 PM:


正常關係ge friend會入幾多次xanga?

正常既...1,2次...最多6,7次....

一日入人十幾廿次XANGA我諗大部人都會覺得奇怪....
(當然...某啲人例外...)

你可以一日十幾兩次入人XANGA黎特顯你''關心''某人...
但亦可能惹人誤會(都唔會有咩誤會啦...)

Stanley Traore

Originally posted by 銀公主 at 2005-7-16 09:33 PM:


盡信書不如無書
所以我先唔俾意見

好深奧...

Stanley Traore

Originally posted by 歐石南 at 2005-7-16 09:33 PM:

知易行難

係...
好多時明知自己當唔到佢係普通朋友...但又要扮出來...

銀公主

Originally posted by Stanley Traore at 2005-7-16 10:46 PM:


好深奧...

有幾

歐石南

Originally posted by Stanley Traore at 2005-7-16 22:48:


係...
好多時明知自己當唔到佢係普通朋友...但又要扮出來...

難在控制既分吋

熱刺#29戴維斯

曾幾何時我都經歷體驗過同一樣o既野
可惜現在只能開啟舊檔去回憶

源．京一

Originally posted by 歐石南 at 2005-7-16 20:52:

我覺得寧願壯烈一點
好過留下滿腹疑團

我覺得後悔做左
好過後悔無做

沉睡的藍

Originally posted by 銀公主 at 2005-7-16 20:40:
我唔識俾意見

x2

銀公主

Originally posted by 源．京一 at 2005-7-16 11:32 PM:

我覺得後悔做左
好過後悔無做

世事並唔係o甘節然二分,而係有好多選擇歧(玩game上腦?)
就以告白來說,並唔係只有告與不告這兩種選擇.
如果只有這種狹隘的眼光,結果就當然只有成功/失敗. 跟住就可以自我安慰話:
我覺得後悔做左
好過後悔無做

但係想深一層,告白的時刻是可以選擇的. 並無任何人(除了自己)強迫你一定要在某時某刻告白.
為左一時間想從不確定的苦戀中解脫的感覺,而盲從於不成功便成仁的衝動. 其成功的機率自然不會高. 失敗之後又可以享受自我安慰的藉口.
唔同既時刻,同一種行動(e.g.告白),可以得出完全唔同既答案. 所以,我覺得唔好亂做自殺性襲擊. 除非你已經判定天秤隨著時間不停地向不利的方向傾斜.


p.s. 我無對zero呢件事俾意見
我只係針對

我覺得後悔做左
好過後悔無做

呢句野發表意見

[ Last edited by 銀公主 on 16-7-2005 at 11:54 PM ]

Zero

銀公主好保守渦,唔似你既